Ghost of a flea

There is nothing that a woman distrusts more than a handsome, mysterious, wealthy stranger! By unloading the brunt of your considerable charm on her, you have instantly made her fear you. In a woman's eyes, confidence is a cheap parlor trick employed by third-rate "pick-up artists." The very concept is tarnished; your only hope is to tone down your interpersonal skills to a level that is more familiar to the average woman.